Tightening your tribe

Today we have the greatest impact when we first tighten our tribe and then give them something to do. First of all people who really care about what you are doing will share it. Second, the old methods of interruption and shouting just don’t work as well anymore. But much has already been said about that topic and there are some great resources available. My favorite is Meatball Sundae by Seth Godin.

What I want to focus on here is the tightening of your tribe. When getting your message out, you will come to a time when you gain followers, people drawn to what you are doing and sharing.  You want to focus on the ones that love what you are doing, and I would add,  regardless of their current influence (I will come back to that near the end).  They are the ones that you want to include in your inner circle.  Going one step further, out of that list are the ones that have influence.  Treat them really well.

That inner circle is your connection to the world.  What we often overlook is that each of them have their own network, and they want to open it to you.

So are you in my inner circle?  Really if you are you already know the answer.  You are the one who re-posts my blogs, joins in on discussions I start, and responds to my calls for action.

A trap we can fall into is not including within our inner circle, those that might not have the greatest influence.  What I am learning is that everyone counts.  It may seem like common sense to include the biggest celebrity online.  The truth is we really don’t know how someone belonging to your tribe will pay off down the road.  The person just starting out might be your greatest contact in the next decade.  Treat anyone who wants to engage with respect and kindness.

On thursday I will dive into how we mobilize our tribe by giving them something to do.

  • http://www.barakstrickland.com/ Barak

    JohnnNice tight article.nGlad to have made your acquaintance.nBarakn

    • http://www.flurrycreations.com/theblog John Bergquist

      Barak, I really enjoyed our phone call too. I can tell you are a true connector. I love it when a great conversation gives me more blog topics and ours resulted in three I plan to write.

  • http://www.multiplyleadership.com Mark Jones Jr.

    John,nI’m not in the inner circle, but this blog has some excellent insight:n”…focus on the ones that love what you are doing, and I would add, regardless of their current influence…”nnPriceless leadership wisdom.nThanks,nMark

    • http://www.flurrycreations.com/theblog John Bergquist

      You are now Mark @MultiplyLeaders. (in the Inner circle) Great blog by the way. I love the title http://www.multiplyleadership.com/ nTony Hsieh talks about that concept in his book Delivering Happiness and how it has helped him be successful. http://about.zappos.com/meet-our-monkeys/tony-hsieh-ceo

      • http://www.multiplyleadership.com Mark Jones Jr.

        Thanks, John. Appreciate the encouragement…every single bit of it.

  • Gary

    Here’s another idea. It might avoid the humility of exclusion or the arrogance of inclusion in that “inner cricle”. How about thinking in terms of rings or multiple circles. I’d like to thnk I belong to circle two. I watch, read, Tweet and only occasionally RT or comment. I don’t really want to be in the inner circle for fear of intruding where only intimates and Oregon Tree Huggers belong. It’s a selfish thought because for all my passion exressed on three blogs, I get few interactions and almost no RT or @ on Twitter. I can imagine with comfort I have dozens of circle two and ten in circle one. See, now I’m not depressed today.

    • http://www.flurrycreations.com/theblog John Bergquist

      No arrogance intended Gary, and yes you are in it. To have a tribe you have to have those that are in it and those that are not. It has to do with who is willing to engage in conversation. I lovingly accept the name tree hugger but my tribe includes all types.

  • Anonymous

    The thing I like about stating that you have an inner circle or tribe is that it immediately establishes you as a thoughtful, intentional person (which, of course, you are).nnI don’t think it’s arrogant, per se, but could see how it could be misinterpreted if you place yourself above fellow tribe members or constantly refer to “my” tribe.